Friday, 26 February 2016

World’s Most Powerful Quotes that Inspire Us Forevere


Without the existence of these thinkers, we may not have made the progress we have in the last century.
We credit them for encouraging compassion and progress worldwide.

These quotes are so powerful, so timeless, they always motivate us to create our own versions:

1. “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” — Gandhi

“Live for what’s worth dying for, and leverage technology to create the world you wish to see.”

2. “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” — Albert Einstein

“Tapping into your genius is simple in theory yet hard to practice. It comes from mastering the one activity you love most and are great at.”

3. “A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.” — George Bernhard Shaw

“Experiments are necessary for the experiences that create growth and new opportunities.”

4. “He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears.” — Michel De Montaigne

“FOMO creates suffering, yet those who suffer, have FOMO.”

5. “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty.” — Mother Theresa

“Love is a requirement to live a healthy life, just like food and water. I practice daily by loving everyone around me.”

6. “Love is a verb. Love — the feeling — is a fruit of love, the verb.” — Stephen Covey

“Love has been mistaken for possession and attachment. Become loving, so you can love all.”

7. “Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” — Confucius

“Life is really simple, but social media has made it complicated.”

8. “If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” — Mary Engelbreit

“How you think determines how you handle stress, and thus how healthy you are. So it’s really all that matters.”

9. “In seeking happiness for others, you will find it in yourself.” — Unknown

“Don’t search for what you’re passionate about, serve others to make yourself passionate.”

10. “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” — Reinhold Niebuhr

“My spirituality and faith has taught me to embrace the things I can’t change, and turn them into opportunities. Meditation and prayer have given me the wisdom and awareness I’ll need.”

11. “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.” — Bill Keane

“Remaining present every moment is the most important habit to perform my best and be happiest.”

12. “Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose.” — Viktor Frankl

“Embrace obstacles to build the resilience required to live a purpose driven life.”

13. “If you want happiness for an hour — take a nap. If you want happiness for a day — go fishing. If you want happiness for a year — inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a life time — help someone else.” — Chinese proverb

“Happiness isn’t something that’s achieved, it’s a skill that’s cultivated and practiced daily. It’s mastery comes from serving others.”

14. “When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.” — Helen Keller

“I now understand that focusing on the past or future mindlessly is a waste of time. All that matters is how well I’m able to experience what I’m doing now.”

15. “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” — Stephen Covey

“Reaction is ego, so I don’t do it. Responding mindfully is the only way to communicate.”

16. “Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.” — Sigmund Freud”

“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, try removing social media for a month.”

17. “Challenges is what makes life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” — Joshua J. Marine”

“Challenges are what get me into a state of flow, and flow makes life worth living, so I look forward to them.”

18. “A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions.” — Oliver Wendell Holmes

“How deep I’m able to experience my experiences are all that matters to grow and therefore be happy.”

19. “The only way that we can live is if we grow. The only way we can grow is if we change. The only way we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we are exposed is if we throw ourselves into the open.” — C. Joybell

“Life is more exciting when things are uncertain. Uncertainty teaches resilience, and resilience gives me the awareness I need to become my best self.”

20. “Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.” — Henry van Dyke

“My wealth is not measured in how much time I have to do what I want, rather, how much meaning I’m able to derive from the time I have."

21. “I would rather die a meaningful death than to live a meaningless life.” — Corazon Aquino”

“Life is generally meaningless beyond the choice we have to assign how meaningful it can be. I don’t fear death because I know this and therefore am able to live with peace of mind.”

Have a Greate Life Ahead......

Sunday, 7 February 2016

Create Yourself....Instead of Finding Yourself

Don’t invest in a career... Build a Life.

   “Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” ― George Bernard Shaw
Today..lets talk something motivational....
You don’t have to but should you decide to accept a wrong role just because you need it, think about how long you will have to endure the pain of doing what you really don’t want..!
There is always a much better way to manage a round hole if you are a square peg. If you can’t find what you want, Create it...
Showing up is not sufficient. Make an impact. Take every opportunity to show up but reset expectations. Leave a mark. Show your most amazing work. Make bold challenge to pursue what you really want...
Don’t expect total acceptance of your ideas, prepare to be pushed, but don’t fall...
— Rules are meant to be broken, break them with pride if you have something significant to create or share...
“Be yourself- not your idea of what you think somebody else’s idea of yourself should be.” ― Henry David Thoreau
There will always be rules and limit, but guess what limits can be stretched. Every thing you are using right now has been improved upon. Think Apple, think different.
You may have been asking the wrong questions all this while.
— Start creating your own path
Can you create your own path?  Yes... you can..!  You think you are not capable but you can do more than you think you can... Don’t trust the system to take care of you...
Create you own system or rules and find a way to make it work.. Stick to the bigger picture but be prepared to embrace change along the way.
— Everything around you that you call life was made up by people that were no smarter than you and you can change it, you can influence it, you can build your own things that other people can use.Once you learn that, you’ll never be the same again.” — Steve Jobs
Following instructions is no longer sufficient for your success.
— Don’t fear to stumble
The important thing about any journey is the courage to get back up and continue. There are countless stories about big entrepreneurs and great succeessful personalities who failed multiple times but still pursued their dreams in the midst of the stumbling blocks.
What is stopping you from trying out one of the many ideas in your notepad. Don’t fear to fail, if you are failing, fail fast and move on but whatever happens don’t give up on the bigger dream.
The path could change but the vision should be clear throughout the journey.
Don’t give in to the relentless pressure to get a job if you really want to create or start something on your own. What can you do next or better still what are you going to do next..! It’s about time you made your first innovative step. Take that bold step now...! 
You don’t have to be right,,,you just need to start.
Fear is only as deep as the mind allows. — Japanese Proverb
Thoughts like “nobody will like it” “my friends will think I am crazy” can deter you from making any step into who you actually are or what you can accomplish.
Put your mind to getting things done instead of focusing on all the things that could go wrong..
Don’t escape from fear; embrace your deepest fear and fight it to overcome it!
Almost everyone can sprint. The road to mastery requires consistency. Everything meaningful in life is a marathon.
Give yourself the permission to think and act. Choose to do your most amazing work without anyone’s approval. Choose yourself today...!
You’ll suck at most things in the beginning. It takes time, persistence, and patience to create anything worthwhile. Keep on trying...
Keep doing what you love, even if no one buys it, sponsors it or shares it. It matters that you show up. The magic will eventually happen...!
“Don’t dare to be different, dare to be yourself — if that doesn’t make you different then something is wrong.” ― Laura Baker
Have a great success ahead....

Friday, 1 January 2016

My New Year Resolution: What about You???

Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year." — Ralph Waldo 


 I'm a big fan of New Year's resolutions. "New Year's resolutions" are yearly goals that we set for ourself at the beginning of a new year. We usually have to do with fitness, saving money, education, etc.

Every year we learn many things, commit many mistakes, enjoy a lot of moments and have some not so good experiences as well,sometimes tragic ones,but at the end of year, we again start planning for the new year.

People often make New Year's resolutions at the beginning of the year but don't end up keeping them.
That used to happen to me too. But this year i am getting serious about my new year resolutions and going to use 
5 steps to achieving these.
some of the techniques that I'm describing below, which will be beneficial for you as well.

1. Only pick three goals

 We should have one really important goal that we're going to achieve no matter what. We can set two other goals to work toward as well. Just remember to decide which goal is our "main" one.

Why am I being so restrictive? Because if we try to do more than three things at once, there are chances we'll get lost. We'll lost track of what's most important. We'll start to neglect one of our goals, and then we'll feel guilty about it. Soon we'll start to lose confidence in ourself.
So stick with one main resolution and two secondary ones.

2. Write the resolutions down and post them somewhere

Think of a single word to represent each of our resolutions. Write the word in big letters and post it somewhere in the home. 

For example, if we want to lose weight, we can make a sign with the word "thin". Hang it on our refrigerator, so that every time we get food we'll be reminded of our resolution.

Don't just we should write resolutions down quietly, though. Announce them to our family and friends. Put them on Facebook page. Make copies of the resolution to hang in office and home. The more reminders, the better.

3. Turn each resolution into a habit

Now that we've chosen a goal, find something that we can do every day to work toward it. Working on our resolutions every single day is very, very effective.

If we do something every day, it becomes a habit. Soon we won't even think about it; we'll just do it naturally, like brushing our teeth.

4. Work on one habit per month

To achieve an important goal, we'll probably need to pick up several good habits. For example, to get in shape we'll need to exercise, cut down on our drinking, eat more vegetables, and so on. 

If we try to pick up a lot of good habits at once, we're probably going to fail. It's just too hard to focus. 
Instead,go for one good habit per month. After we've gotten used to the first one, we can then add the next one, and so on. For example, 

if we want to save more money this year, we can add habits like this:

·     January: Write down our expenses each day
·     February: Make our own lunvh each day
·     March: Sell one used item from our home each day on the Internet
...and so on.

5. Use a calendar

A few years ago, I heard about the Jerry Seinfeld calendar technique.
The way it works is simple: get a calendar to put on the wall. Every day that we keep up our good habits, mark the day with an "X" on the calendar. Then try not to miss any days.

Seeing all of the hard work marked on the calendar will motivate us to continue working hard every day.

Review:

To review, here's how we can make New Year's resolutions this year and really keep them:

  • Pick one main resolution and one or two secondary ones.  
  • Write your resolutions down and post them in easy-to-see places.
  • Find a way to work on our resolutions every day.
  • Start just one new habit per month.
  • Keep track of our progress on a calendar....


 So what are your resolutions going to be? Something related to.....? What are you going to do each day to achieve your goals???

 With warm regards and great best wishes for your success, I wish you a happy, healthy, prosperous, outstanding new year as you adopt these New Year's resolutions and add a few more of your own…..

Thursday, 1 October 2015

Gandhi and Non-violenc

  A world of peace can be achieved if we learn the power of non-violence, as shown by the life of Mahatma Gandhi.




“If humanity is to progress, Gandhi is inescapable. He lived, thought, acted and inspired by the vision of humanity evolving toward a world of peace and harmony.” – Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
  
  
 Have you ever dreamed about a joyful world with peace and prosperity for all Mankind – a world in which we respect and love each other despite the differences in our culture, religion and way of life?

I often feel helpless when I see the world in turmoil, a result of the differences between our ideals and aspirations. This leads to grief and sorrow being inflicted on millions of innocent victims by a few who abuse the power of their convictions.

“How can I make difference so that I may bring peace to this world that I love and cherish so much? A name flickers instantly in my mind.”  – Mahatma Gandhi

 Mahatma Gandhi inspired the world with his faith in truth and justice for all Mankind. He was a great soul who loved even those who fought against his ideals to bring about peace with non-violence. How could a meek and fragile person of small physical stature inspire millions to bring about a profound change in a way the mightiest had never achieved before?

His achievements were nothing less than miracles — his creed was to bring peace to not only those who suffered injustice and sorrow but to espouse a new way of life for Mankind, with peace and harmony. His life was a message — a message of peace over power, of finding ways to reconcile our differences, and of living in harmony with respect and love even for our enemy.

Let us learn five great teachings of Mahatma Gandhi:

Teaching # 1: Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment.

Teaching # 2: What difference does it make to the dead, the orphans, and the homeless, whether the mad destruction is wrought under the name of totalitarianism or the holy name of liberty and democracy?

Teaching # 3: There are many causes that I am prepared to die for but no cause that I am prepared to kill for.

Teaching #4: We must become the change we want to see in the world.

Teaching # 5: An eye for an eye will only make the whole world blind.

  History can attest to the fact that most human conflicts have been as a result of a stubborn approach by our leaders. Our history would turn out for the better if our leaders could just learn that most disputes can be resolved by showing a willingness to understand the issues of our opponents and by using diplomacy and compassion.

No matter where we live, what religion we practice or what culture we cultivate, at the heart of everything, we are all humans. We all have the same ambitions and aspirations to raise our family and to live life to its fullest. Our cultural, religious and political differences should not provide the backbone to invoke conflicts that can only bring sorrow and destruction to our world.

Khair…..lets come to the conclusion by sayings of Albert Einstein on Gandhi.

“Generations to come, it may be, will scarce believe that such one as this ever in flesh and blood walked upon this earth.”.

 Mahatma Gandhi taught us that we can bring harmony to our world by becoming champions of love and peace for all. The task is daunting, but he has shown that a fragile, meekly man of small physical stature can achieve feats of incredible magnitude with a staunch belief to practice peace through non-violence.

Will you make a pledge to become the change that you would like to see in this world? I have.

Let the first act of every morning be to make the following resolve for the day:

  • I shall not fear anyone on Earth.
  • I shall fear only God.
  • I shall not bear ill will toward anyone.
  • I shall not submit to injustice from anyone.
  • I shall conquer untruth by truth. And in resisting untruth, I shall put up with all suffering.


– Mahatma Gandhi
             

Wish you all a great Gandhi Jaynti time and great future ahead….




Wednesday, 23 September 2015

Anger?

Anger?


Although anger is a very natural human emotion and feeling; it can have negative effects on those who allow it to control them, and adverse effects on those who around them. Anger can destroy relationships, health, property, and livelihood. It is also very powerful and can vary in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury.  The latter can be destructive.  It can rage through a person, creating a desire for revenge and pushing a person to strike out at the object of his anger.  Because it is natural it is impossible for a person to avoid it completely.  It is however possible to understand anger and thus control it.

Because anger is often associated with ‘fight or flight responses’, it is often difficult to separate an action that is done in self-defense (or to protect properties or families) from one that is done out of uncontrolled rage.   It is ok to feel anger but it is not acceptable when a person allows it to overtake him and drive him to act in an unacceptable way, sometimes even leading to a very harsh action.

Uncontrolled anger is one of the tools of Satan and it can lead to many evils and tragedies. That is why once Prophet Muhammad called it a hot coal on the heart of a descendant of Adam.  There is no full proof way to completely eliminate anger because it is a natural human emotion.
When I go through the lives of great personalities of the world I found they have given many technics how to control anger and how to channel it into acceptable actions. 

There are also distinct advantages to following the guidelines set out. Once a man came to Prophet Mohammad and said, “Messenger of God, teach me some words which I can live by.  Do not make them too much for me, in case I forget.”  He said, “Do not be angry”. He the Prophet also advised that performing ablution was an acceptable method of anger management.  He said, “Anger comes from Satan, Satan was created from fire, and fire is extinguished only with water; so when any of you is angry, he should perform ablution”. If any of you becomes angry and he is standing, let him sit down, so his anger will go away; if it does not go away, let him lie down.”

 Jesus was also the best psychologist and the best moral teacher. He understood anger and told how to deal with them. In the Sermon on the Mount he wen over his fundamental teaching on anger, contempt, and how to deal with interpersonal conflict. Jesus was saying that the emotion of anger is not a sinful but dangerous and to be careful! Be the first to say “I’m sorry” or to offer empathy and compassion. Of course, this is not fair, but do it anyway because God does it for you. You can “Forgive as the Lord forgave you” 

In the same way Lord Krishna explains getting angry is a four step process. While contemplating the objects of the senses, a person develops attachment for them, and from such attachment lust develops, and from lust anger arises.

 Let us follow the illustration below

1.    Our senses come In contact with a sense object. Sense object refers to anything that we see, hear, taste, touch or smell or even something that we think of in our minds.

2.    After the first point of contact we develop an attachment or liking for it.

3.    The obvious third step is to develop a desire (lust) to possess it or have it done our way.

4.     And finally when that does not occur, the emotion manifests as anger.

So it appears as though the problem first arises when the senses come in contact with their sense objects. Therefore, the easiest solution must be to just control our senses and nip it in the bud. Well, that’s easier said than done!
Thus anger is a normal, healthy emotion, but when chronic, explosive anger spirals out of control, it can have serious consequences for our relationships, our health, and our state of mind. 

 There are many techniques that can help us to be cool down and keep our anger in check. In such a situation focus on the physical sensations of anger, take some deep breaths, use your senses, stretch or massage areas of tension, slowly count to ten, and focus on the counting to let our rational mind catch up with our feelings.

Monday, 14 September 2015

Zero to One


              If you want to build a better future, you must believe in secrets.


The great secret of our time is that there are still uncharted frontiers to explore and new inventions to create. In "Zero to One" , the book of  legendary entrepreneur and investor Peter Thiel shows how we can find singular ways to create those new things. 

Peter Thiel is a German American entrepreneur and the billionaire known for starting “Paypal” with Elon Musk and for being one of the first investors in Mark Zuckerburg’s Facebook.

I think Thiel Peter might be one of the top ten smartest people living on planet Earth today.
 
Fortunately today I have come across the goodreads author Peter Thiel, Zero To One.

I was also watching a few video interviews he did that had tremendous insight into his genius brain.
 
Here are 10 wonderful things I wrote down about Peter's perspective on life:

1. Avoid extreme worldviews: "Extreme pessimists find no point in doing anything. And extreme optimists find no need to do anything. They both converge on doing nothing."
 
2. Conventional wisdom leads to you competing for something worthless: “Elite students climb confidently until they reach a level of competition sufficiently intense to beat their dreams out of them. Higher education is the place where people who had big plans in high school get stuck in fierce rivalries with equally smart peers over conventional careers like management consulting and investment banking. For the privilege of being turned into conformists, students (or their families) pay hundreds of thousands of dollars in skyrocketing tuition that continues to outpace inflation. Why are we doing this to ourselves?” 
 
3. His advice to his younger self: "If you ever have to choose between status or substance, choose substance." He says we will all face that choice and our tendency is to go with social proof (what the masses perceive as the right choice) but we should avoid this.
 
 4. The modern education system is similar to the Church in the Dark Ages centuries ago: Peter compares it this way, "It had become a very corrupt institution. It was charging more and more for indulgences. People thought (In the 1500's) they could only get saved by going to the Church, just like people today believe that salvation involves getting a college diploma. And if you don’t get a college diploma that you're going to go to hell. I think my answer is, in some ways, like that of the reformers in the 16th century. it is the same disturbing answer -- that you're going to have to figure out your salvation on your own.
 
5. Why nerds seem to be so successful in life: Thiel observed how many big entrepreneurs like Mark Zuckerberg have Asperger Syndrome (which makes them socially awkward but less sensitive to societal norms), "We need to ask, what is it about our society where those of us who do not suffer from Asperger’s are at some massive disadvantage because we will be talked out of our interesting, original, creative ideas before they are even fully formed?
 
6. The most important question you can ask yourself: “Tell me something that’s true that very few people agree with you on.”
This is a very tricky question to answer.
 
Try it.
 
(Remember that it has to be something that is true not something made up)... The reason this is such a vital thing to ask is that most big breakthroughs come from catching trends that the average human doesn't have the vision or contrarian viewpoint to see. 
 
 
7. Would he go to a university again if he could do it all over?: "It's possible I would do it again," he said, but also that he would, "think about it much harder. I would ask questions, 'Why am I doing this? Am I doing this just because I have good grades and test scores? And because I think it’s prestigious? Or am I doing this because I'm extremely passionate about practicing law? So I think there are good answers and there are bad answers and my, sort of, retrospective on my early 20s is that I was way too focused on the wrong answers at the time. 
 
8. Seek no competition: "Most business books tell you how you should compete more effectively, and mine goes somewhat against the grain to tell you that you should not compete," Thiel says, "Figure out something that nobody else is doing and look to create a monopoly in some area that's been underdeveloped. 
 
He goes on to say:

"Every moment in business happens only once. The next Bill Gates will not build an operating system. The next Larry Page or Sergey Brin won’t make a search engine. And the next Mark Zuckerberg won’t create a social network. If you are copying these guys, you aren’t learning from them.” 
 
9. It's not an education that you want, it's knowledge: Peter explains, "I don’t like the word education because it is such an extraordinary abstraction. I'm very much in favor of learning. I'm much more skeptical of credentialing or the abstract called education. So there are all these granule questions. Like, what is it that you're learning? Why are you learning it? Are you going to college because it's a four year party? Is it a consumption decision? Is it an investment decision, where you're investing in your future? Is it insurance? Or is a tournament, where you're just beating other people? Are our elite universities really like Studio 54 where it's like an exclusive night club?"
 
This is why I speak about knowledge so much. The world is now entering into the age of the "Knowledge Society." It's not the information age anymore. It's the knowledge age...
 
10. Being part of something new and exciting is the best way to control your life's destiny: "A startup is the largest endeavor over which you can have definite mastery. You can have agency not just over your own life, but over a small and important part of the world. It begins by rejecting the unjust tyranny of chance. You are not a lottery ticket."